Child Behavior Disorders: When Misbehaving Becomes a Pattern

Every child misbehaves now and then. Stress can also set off behavior problems that pass with time: a new brother or sister, a divorce, or a death in the family can all lead a child to act out.

A behavior disorder is more serious. It is a pattern of hostile, aggressive or disruptive behavior that goes on for more than 6 months and does not fit the child's age.

Warning signs

• harming or threatening themselves, other people or pets
• damaging or destroying property
• lying or stealing
• doing poorly in school, or skipping it
• smoking, drinking or using drugs early
• early sexual activity
• frequent tantrums and arguments
• steady hostility toward authority figures

Why to act early

Poor choices can turn into habits, so if you notice signs of a problem, get help. Children with behavior problems face a higher risk of failing at school, of mental health problems, and even of suicide.

What helps

• For parents: classes or family therapy can teach how to set limits and hold to them.
• For the child: talk therapy and behavior therapy can also help.

Sources

• MedlinePlus, produced by the U.S. National Library of Medicine, "Child Behavior Disorders": https://medlineplus.gov/childbehaviordisorders.html